Fixing all the junk that breaks round here...bullying... surviving

So I am always fixing something here lately. We had the washer break last sunday which caused water to flood my laundry room. It really stinks. So a friend walked me through fixing it. Then I had the misfortune of my dryer not working properly. I then worked on the dryer friday. I got it fixed and it worked on the first run every time.

The toilet has been running all the time now. I looked on e-how and figured out how to fix it. Went today and got the parts and put the toilet back together. That was fixed. Kailey had spent the night with my cousin. I went to get in the shower but had some items that needed to go in the washer so when I went back there, the washer was leaking all over the floor again.. I was soo pissed.

My man and I got into a fight about the washer it was a real doosy as he was aggrivated I needed help I had just dressed the baby and I was wanting to get out of the house and get to Erins to get Kailey and get to the Birthday party. My grandmother called relentlessly about her medication (we will get to that laterr) and I had already made plans to make time to get to her before picking up Kailey I didn't have time for this washer mishap.... so aggrivating. The arguing didn't help either. I just decided if he thought it only took one person to fix it he could fix it by hmself so I left, but not in enough time to get to my grandmother (whom we respectfully call mamaw).

So I called my father (her son) and told him she was having a medicine mishap and needed assistance. (he never called or went over to check on her).

I got to Erins. Got Kiwi and got to the birthday party. It was fun Kailey's friend Rhianna and her played all the games in the arcade. I put some quarters in this one machine and hit the jack pot collecting over 200 tickets. I had given Rhianna a token and the same thing happened to her. I am sure that if this was my lucky day that the other junk would not have happened so these machines must have been broken.

While we were sitting at the table with the other girls from Jossies party Rhianna said that her teacher told her she couldn't play with Kailey anymore, just out of the blue. I said "Why?" Rhianna said "I am not sure." Rhianna was a lot taller than any of the other children in her class. She looked like maybe a year older aswell.

So I asked Rhianna what happened when she told her not to hang out with Kailey anymore. R said "Kailey and I were playing on the playground, I was climbing the rock wall and Logan (another Girl in my daughters class) came up and told Kailey "I am prettier than you" then she Jerked Rhianna off the wall and shoved her into it. She then told me that Ms. Bays told her and Logan to not play with Kailey.

I then looked at Kailey and asked her why I was never told about this. She said she forgot in an it is not that big of a deal way. Rhianna said "but I like playing with Kailey and Logan is mean to everyone."

Now I understand the teacher asking them not to play with one another if Kailey is being a bully and setting limitations on Kailey if she is the one causing the trouble but it was  not Kailey and no one had to tell me I would have never known.

I took Kailey to this little girls birthday party not too long ago. She was not mean then. Kailey said she wasn't her friend anymore, so I asked her why and she said I don't know she just says mean things to me now and so I just don't play with her. Apparently this little girl is over stepping the line with physical bullying and mental bullying. They wonder why this goes on as children get bigger put a stop to it and have no tollerance for it in elementary and there will be no problem with it in Middle or High school. If there is then it will be few and far between. The children are only in first grade.

After the party I took the kids home. Emma was beyond tired. She was ready for a nap. Kailey was mad we didn't go to Erins again. I handled the washer situation, then went to take care of my grandma situation.

I am so tired of having every human in my life depend on me. I love my children and everyone else. but if you are over the age of 18 you need to have a bit of independance. My children are less needy than my adult family.

We did not get to see frankin-weenie this weekend. It sucks but Kailey wanted to go stay at my cousin Erins instead. I will take her next weekend.

Buddy and I went to Baileys to see the steelers play on the big screen they won but it was a slow boring game. After the game Buddy wanted to go see Jeff so we went to Jeffs. On our way we bout got killed by some ideot. I was driving and we were on the hwy and there is a very blind curve but the two lanes are both going north in to a town called Salway, as we went around the curve to come into salway I was in the fast lane, and there was a van in the fast lane coming right towards me (umm where was he going??? traffic doesnt go that way and the nearest lane that does was not even visible)

So I swerved to my right not thinking about other cars that could be in that lane just thinking about the head on collision I didn't want to have. I successfully veered by him in the nick of time but if I had not we would have been most certainly dead going 70 towards a van who has some clueless dumb ass on a phone chatting it up while trying to kill ppl was gonna defenantly be a bad ending.

I am just thankful I got to go home to my girls that night. I am happy to say that I am a good defensive driver, I have saved myself from many near death accidents and none would have ended up being my fault. I have to go for now I hope I stay on a blogging roll.